The adoptive parents appealed the ruling but the court took no action, so today, the little boy went to live with his biological mother. We were awarded with nothing. “The first case involved a Florida boy, now 3 ½, whose birth mother placed him for adoption in May 2001, when he was two days old. “Give half to one and half to the other,” he proclaims. A birth parent might not want their family to know about a secret that’s been kept hidden for years - the adoptee’s existence. I didn’t sign over the rights to my son to his uncle because I was a bad parent. For the most part, the biological parents have no recourse to take a child back after the adoption is finalized in court. Adoption laws almost always favor the biological parents. If you are adopting the people adopting are loving people and want children. A husband,two kids, good income so much more than I had to give. It's not easy, though. I found out a few years ago that my “grandmother” orchestrated the adoption. He just knows his family gave him away. It’s not even how much we love them but how much they love us, depend on us and trust us! We are now taking this couple to court for breech of agreement only for my daughter to get to see her baby 2 times a year and get pictures of her. The maternal grandmother just recently got out out of jail for prostitution (she’s going to help the birth dad take care of Kylie while birth mom finishes her sentence). There’s Torry Ann Hansen, the now-infamous Tennessee nurse who sent her 7-year-old adopted son back to his native Russia on a plane, alone.Then there’s Joyce Maynard, the writer who made headlines last year when she admitted to giving her two adopted Ethiopian daughters to a new family. Can you ‘unadopt’ a kid?” Because adoption is meant to create permanence for children, most state laws limit the rights of birth parents to withdraw their consent. When it appears that we’re finally being given the opportunity to adopt one, we’re prepared to move mountains to assure that happens. A reader, Kim, brings back our adoption series with the story of her search for her birth family:. Thank you, Judge Snowdy, thank you, St. John Parish and thank you, State of Louisiana for keeping the best interests of this beautiful child at the top of your priority list. So many stories, so many broken hearts, so much anguish and hurt. Elizabeth Jurenovich´s last blog post ..ORIENTATION. History proves that adoption laws almost always favor the biological parents. The media, of course, makes a big splash about the event, and fears about adoption continue to be perpetuated. His birth mom gives him unconditional love mixed with a healthy dose of momish advice. There are any number of reasons why the birth mother could succeed in getting her child back, no matter how long it's been. A young husband with issues of his own (etc domestic violence , drinking, drugs , destroying my life) just wasn’t ready to be a man or father so after alot of abuse and family court I moved in with my mom. They fight in court to prevent visitation, to stall the case until the child is much older and more attached, then petition the court to ask that because the case was delayed for so long the child should not be returned to the biological parents. Many people have won their custody rights back. - BabyCenter Canada How is that okay? This temporary custody period varies in length from state to state. The two women give birth (in the same house) within three days of one another. I can’t imagine turning them over to a stranger! It’s not right for an industry, driven exclusively by money, to place a vulnerable birth parent in a position to place their child and deny what God himself has given to them…rather you like their lifestyle or not. Therefore, we need to voice our thoughts, out proposals, and our authentic ways of doing things to the government, to the agencies, to the state; so, things could be and shall be the way it is supposed to be and be greater than we ever imagined! At the same time the adoptive parents who really contribute in bringing up this life of this child are so admirable. People make many mistakes, but it is them who have to suffer with the consequences. Could she adopt him back? But God Himself is infinite, and His supply for His people is infinite. Please help with any advice.. Hi, Where are the rights for the child? I had a lack of support from the father and any family members. We yearn long and hard for a child. They had shaved her head, and at almost 4 years old, Layla could not put words into sentences.